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Name: tran
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Friday, April 06, 2007

Cheaters Never Win

I don't know why people think they can cheat on their boyfriend/girlfriend and get away with it.  In due time, they will be found out.  Karma's a bitch, and it will bite you in the ass and chomp down! 

What amazes me still is how cheaters justify their behavior.  If you ask me, it is 100% UNACCEPTABLE.  The first inkling of a moment you think you may not like someone even slightly while you have a #1 person, you better take a moment to think about how much this 2nd person means to you and how much #1 means to you.  Don't cheat on people, innocent bystanders don't deserve it.  Then you have the people that say "oh, but we're just friends."  BULLSHIET!  A relationship isn't just spending time with someone, it's also sharing your thoughts, your dreams, it's emotional as well.  If you're hanging out or talking with other people more than you are with #1, maybe you should think twice about why #1 is still #1.  

Now, it takes two to tango.  So if you are the recipient of the attention of someone with a significant other, you should be just as much ashamed of yourself.  Don't think that Karma gives you a free ride b/c you are single.  Karma will kick you in the ass as well and maybe double b/c you should know better!  If this person is willing to give themselves (physically or emotionally) to someone while he/she is already with someone, don't think they wouldnt do the same thing to you.  I know what you're telling youself "oh, but it's different."  Are a panther and a cougar different?  Same cat different colors.  It don't make a dam difference.  If he/she cheats on his/her bf/gf, they gonna cheat on your stupid ass too.  Don't say I didn't tell you so.   

With all this said, I will tell you the same thing I told an employee of mine who is(was) 19.  Girls come and go, don't waste your money on them.  If he/she truly cared for you, they would treat you with respect and give you 100% of their attention. 

People suck!  Some people more than others! 


Thursday, February 08, 2007

Great Expectations?

I've had friends in the past who have told me that it is rather difficult to be my friend b/c I expect so much out of people.  I didn't know how to take this comment at the time.  After some thought, I realized that I don't expect a lot from other people.  It's only those selfish people out there who think this b/c they are only concerned with what they can get.  Therefore, the moment anything is asked of them, they turn it around on you so that you are made to feel like the bad guy and they the victim. 

I personally don't think I expect a lot from people at all.  And true friends of mine know that I am probably one of the most giving person they know.  Of course, I have expectations... same as any other human.  I expect that you respect me.  I expect that you are honest and considerate and practice common courtesy.  I expect that you do not take advantage of my friendship.  I expect that b/c I very very rarely ask for things, that when I do... you are willing to at least try to help me out.  Is this really expecting too much out of people?? 


Sunday, February 04, 2007

Working on Sunday...

SUCKS!!!


Thursday, February 01, 2007

My Return to the Blog World

it's been ages since i had a real entry.  i figured its about that time to start writing again and get my thoughts out of my head...

i just came back from 3 nights in Shrevport, La.  once you've been to Vegas/Atlantic City/Monte Carlo, Shrevport really aint nothing special.  We had a managers meeting there where all our dock managers from around the U.S. came together to discuss what happened in 2006 and what are plans are for 2007.  i think i blew away more money in Shrevport that i did in Vegas/Atlantic City/Monte Carlo combined!!  but this time, i also had the iniative to learn about other games (roulette and craps).  i ended up actually playing craps with one of my coworkers the last night there and winning some money! 

all in all, it was a very good trip.  i learned quite a bit about other sites we have.  in addition, i really got to get to know and bond with these other managers.  my position has traditionally been VERY male dominated.  basically, i am the 2nd female dock manager in the history of the company.  but i was hanging, drinking, and eventually karaoke-ing with these guys.  nothing better than a little -OH to get ppl to kno each other.  now that i feel i kno them a little better, i feel more comfortable calling them up with questions and just interacting with them in general.  i held my own well and i think i won their respect because of it.  now i just have to make sure i do my job 110% well and correctly!

so at the end of the day, i left shrevport with some $$ so it was a good trip. 


Thursday, October 19, 2006

** 2nd Anniversary **

Today is my 2nd anniversary.  Strangely enough, it really does feel different.  I am 3 years away from hitting the next decade mark.  It's almost as if I don't have a "Get out of Jail Free" card anymore.  When you're young, you can blame almost anything on your youth and ignorance.  When you're old, you're supposed to know better. 

Dammit, I am gonna fight it!  I will be young for as long as it makes logical sense for me to be young aka as long as I look it!  Much thanks to my asian genes for it being only an anniversary today!!

Photos to come later!



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